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Content by Sashi Perera

On Love: Selfish enough to choose myself

"I know my parents love me, but they’ll never fully understand me"

On Love: Turning 30 won't be my "gay death"

“I was told on dates that my race was what they found desirable”

On Love: Toughening up for vulnerability as a new mother

"I won’t lose my cool with a child that’s relying on me for everything she needs"

On Love: Learning to be ethically non-monogamous

"A younger me didn’t get it – I placed love on lofty, over-romanticised pedestals"

On Love: 'Self-love' is easy to desire, heavy to practice

"My brain subconsciously disapproves of me if I'm above a certain weight"

On Love: The complication of being 'unconditional'

"As a queer, brown, female-assigned person – things got complicated"